Why Italians often marry Russian women?
“When I get home after work, I know that I’m not waiting for the evening tedious moralizing,” – says Antonio, a divorced man in the age after forty. His new beloved half is Russian woman. “If she was not interesting to me, I would not pay attention to her. But my Tanya is not only beautiful, but also intelligent. With her I can easily discuss any topics, including those that cannot be discussed with the Italian women. But when she’d better be quiet, she is, because somehow she also intuitively understands this”.
All the men, married to women from Russia and former Soviet states say Russian wives do not complain about nothing and always maintain order in the house. And often they are not limited to household chores: they have an excellent ability to adapt and will do any job. They try not to be a burden to their husbands, even if they are relatively secured.
“I have a fantastic wife – says Massimo, chandeliers shopkeeper downtown in the north of Italy. – We met during my trip to Russia and it was love at first sight. Ira first treated me with suspicion and I could not believe that such beauty can be lonely. What qualities of his wife are the most valued by Massimo according to him? “She is a serious person, responsible, sweet and modest, helping me in the store and raised their own children,” – he said. Ira and Massimo have created a family in which they are raising two teenagers – Ira’s children from a previous marriage in Russia. Now they grow up in a house full of love. “Ira is the right woman for me and I hope that I am the perfect husband to her, fulfilling her expectations,” – proudly says Massimo.
In large, Russians and Italians are perfectly compatible, because of having a lot in common and they can easily find a common language if they both wish. Most often it is that Russian woman decides to move to Italy after marriage. Like most Russian women they consider Italy the most beautiful country in the world, but also Italy is highly developed western country, unlike Russia, where only Moscow and big cities are good for comfort life. But there are also Italian men who have decided to move into the former Soviet Union, as now it is kind of trendy in Italy.
If a man wants to be happy in marriage, not depending on the nationality, what qualities he better forget of? He has not to be boring and dull, passive and lethargic. At the same time woman does not has to be selfish. In love, only part of the person can be selfish, the one that is responsible for self-love, but selfishness should not apply to partner. People need to complement each other, to go to meet each other, to constantly seek and find compromises. But here it is necessary to comply with the measure and does not go to extremes. Both, the one who lives together as if he is still alone, and the one, who forgets himself for another are not right. Two full identities must exist in balance and harmony with each other.
The Russian girls are desirable by their beauty and femininity and the country – the culture, literature, great writers, classical music, traditions and education. And all this culture has somehow left a mark on the image of women. Feminine beauty, like the mentality of all the peoples of the world, it is impossible to grasp, even for all life. In this case many choose Russia. Unfortunately, in Italy under the “Russia” people means anything, including the former Soviet republics, which are now autonomous and have their own culture, sometimes much greater and not as authoritative.
On February 14th, most of Russian women dream of a marriage proposal and what is expected of the day by Italian women? Valentine’s Day is for romantics and marriage and the offer of it is very serious matter and action, not for this day. On a holiday it is best simply to make a girlfriend happy. How to make your girlfriend happy on February 14th? This is individual for everyone, there is no prescription how to make happy one woman or all women of the world at once. It depends on the preference of your particular women.
What should Russian woman do to attract the foreign man in such a way so he wanted to marry her? Man must feel that she shares with him the world. This does not mean that the two share everything: thoughts and passions with each other directly dissolve in one another. Share the world means to be on the same wavelength; to understand each other quickly and without words. You know how it happens: one just thought about something and the other has said the same. Or might he and she write to each other text messages at the same time and come to exactly the same message! Being in different places, they suddenly have thought the same thing and decided to share this thought with the closest person. This is called telepathy or just a very close emotional connection that allows impulses to feel each other even at a distance.
It is obvious that a woman should share at least some of her men’s passions, but a man should at least a little fit to her ideal of a man. Every man chooses a woman for himself – and, of course, subconsciously feels, which she has to be, even if he cannot explain in words. You know tone of voice, taste, kiss, the smell of her skin, various subtle details of appearance and the character strokes. If the woman is beautiful, feminine, well appointed, has her own “self” and interests, other than the desire to get married immediately, if she is attentive to details, both external and internal, she has all the chances to find nice foreign fiancé.